Posts in Articles by Christen
Being A Person Who's Constantly in Relationships Isn't a Good Thing, Beloved - Get It Together

How can you ever cultivate a truly healthy relationship in your life and find someone who loves you for you if you don’t even know who the hell you are? Being alone doesn’t automatically equal loneliness. Being alone equals finding out who you are and doing the work to get to the bottom of your choices.

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Single and Dating With Kids: From the Perspective of A Child Who Grew Up With A Single Woman

As a young girl who was raised by a beautiful, black, single woman, I ended up learning certain things about the opposite sex and dating not only from the things my mother told me but also from the things I saw and noticed. As I grew older and became a woman, I took certain things my mother taught me directly and indirectly into my dating life.

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Is Dating As A Millennial Really Harder Now Than In Past Generations, Or Are We Really Just A Bunch of Whining Babies?

“Most of us (myself included) feel like it’s harder to meet someone now than it was back in our parents’ and grandparents’ generations. Why is that? If you want my opinion (like I knew you would), it’s because we’re focused on certain things in life that warrant a long pause in getting married at a young age.”

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Social Media, Relationship Goals, and Why All of It Is Complete and Utter Bullshit

Why is dating as a millennial so got damn hard? Seriously. All I know is, social media has altered our expectations of what a healthy relationship looks like. If you open your Twitter app, chances are after a few scrolls you’ll see a couple’s random picture on your timeline, with the words “relationship goals” captioned above it.

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